How do you define freedom? Do you lack freedom when you're in a relationship?
I have a friend who is recently bounded by relationship problems. Though the exact root of the problem is not known, but freedom was one of the suspected issue.
For myself, I always feel that you can never have total freedom unless you migrate to another country where you do not know anyone or unless you're alone in this world without any relatives or anybody who cares for you. Why is that so? Because of your family, your decisions might need to change if it does harm to them. Because of your friends, you might want to forego certain luxuries just to stay by their side. Because of your partner, you want to protect them and always make them happy so you're willing try out things which you previously do not like. Does this make sense? Think about it...
So how do we make ourselves less tied or bonded to all those mentioned above? Destress. Using what method you might ask? Ask yourself that question! Only you have the correct answer for yourself.
I personally frequent the KTV when I am feeling tensed up or when I am irritated by a problem. It always helps me to release stress and make better decisions after I've calmed down. What is yours?
On the other hand, speaking of relationships, if you are in a relationship, do you miss being single? It is very contradicting right? When you are single, you want to get attached. But when you are attached, you are attracted to singlehood. Sometimes I do miss my life of being single. Not that my relationship with my bf is not smooth, but you always have to think of his feelings before you make any move. Resulting in me not doing many things which I would want to do. And guess what's the best thing? We are totally 2 opposite poles- north and south. Yeah, people say opposite attracts. I really believe that now. What I like to do he doesn't. What he adores I don't. Complicated yeah? Last time I would try to give in and give it a try. But in recent months, I totally don't feel like doing so. I thought to myself: I want to live happily, so why should i force myself to do something that I don't like? So I rejected his suggestions at times. Of course there are certain times when you really have to be sporty and play along, especially if it's matters that are closer to the heart. So calling all lovebirds: Love each other, but live the life you want to as well.
Oh well, signing off now...
I have a friend who is recently bounded by relationship problems. Though the exact root of the problem is not known, but freedom was one of the suspected issue.
For myself, I always feel that you can never have total freedom unless you migrate to another country where you do not know anyone or unless you're alone in this world without any relatives or anybody who cares for you. Why is that so? Because of your family, your decisions might need to change if it does harm to them. Because of your friends, you might want to forego certain luxuries just to stay by their side. Because of your partner, you want to protect them and always make them happy so you're willing try out things which you previously do not like. Does this make sense? Think about it...
So how do we make ourselves less tied or bonded to all those mentioned above? Destress. Using what method you might ask? Ask yourself that question! Only you have the correct answer for yourself.
I personally frequent the KTV when I am feeling tensed up or when I am irritated by a problem. It always helps me to release stress and make better decisions after I've calmed down. What is yours?
On the other hand, speaking of relationships, if you are in a relationship, do you miss being single? It is very contradicting right? When you are single, you want to get attached. But when you are attached, you are attracted to singlehood. Sometimes I do miss my life of being single. Not that my relationship with my bf is not smooth, but you always have to think of his feelings before you make any move. Resulting in me not doing many things which I would want to do. And guess what's the best thing? We are totally 2 opposite poles- north and south. Yeah, people say opposite attracts. I really believe that now. What I like to do he doesn't. What he adores I don't. Complicated yeah? Last time I would try to give in and give it a try. But in recent months, I totally don't feel like doing so. I thought to myself: I want to live happily, so why should i force myself to do something that I don't like? So I rejected his suggestions at times. Of course there are certain times when you really have to be sporty and play along, especially if it's matters that are closer to the heart. So calling all lovebirds: Love each other, but live the life you want to as well.
Oh well, signing off now...
