I have been quite disturbed by the death of a Taiwanese idol actress recently- Xu Wei Lun

I believe many others are too, at least some of my friends and sister are.

Life is so fragile, so vulnerable, so weak. Many people come and go at anytime, anyplace. But why is it that we're so shaken and affected by her death?

I told my friend: "Probably because she is an idol actress, young and pretty, therefore, in our eyes, we take it for granted that she will never die, or at least not for now, not at such a young age."

Of course, saying that she will never die is rather exaggerating. But we must admit that we take young lives for granted. We never expect their lives to end so early.

So the saying goes: When you learn how to die, you learn how to live. I finally clearly understood this meaning. Are you doing what you're loving and enjoying now? Are you happy? Will you die without regrets? Have you made accomplishments that have satisfied you?

I met up with a poly friend whom I have not met for half a year already 2 days ago. She asked me: Have you ever wondered what you want to carve on your tombstone?

Hmmm...

I have yet to come up with the answer, but the moral of the story is- why wait till when 'the thing' has happened then fred? Why not do something about it when you have the ability to? I totally agree.

Up to today, 5 days after her death, I still cannot believe that she has left the world. It's just so unbelievable...

I want to take this opportunity to tell all my friends and loved ones that I love all of you, that regardless of what happens, all of you will always be in my heart...

Extracted from Rainie Yang Cheng Lin's Blog:

我們每天都在學習.都在成長....
這次瑋倫的事情.也讓我學習到許多許多...
只是...
付出的代價.未免太大了!!!
我不想失去她.真的不想...
上次吃飯還說好下次該她請客...
怎麼...就沒有下次了!!!
瑋倫離開了我們...
有太多的不捨...
太多的想念...
她的離開...
讓我知道自己該學著堅強...
我盡量...
但是...真的好難!!!
到現在.我還是覺得這是個玩笑.是一場惡作劇...
總覺得她沒有離開過...
呵...人最會自己騙自己了!!!
雖然傷痛...
但還是要面對~~~
所以...
我尊重瑋倫的決定...
身為好朋友.我更應該支持她!!!
老婆...
希望你在另一個世界能夠快樂...
也許...
時間會沖淡我們的傷痛...
但...
我們不會因為時間而把你忘記...
瑋倫.一路好走~~~
下輩子.還是要當姊妹喔!!!