Tuesday, November 28, 2006
To those who I do not know and have stumbled upon my blog, I thank you for taking time off to read my posts. Though it may not be as interesting as many other bloggers, but it is what I seriously feel is worthwhile to share. Some of them may not directly relate to you, but if you happen to be in the same situation as me in future, I do hope you can take me as a guide, helping you to make a better decision. If by then, you need a listening ear or need advises, feel free to drop me a mail or feedback with your email address. I'll definitely be here for you.
To those who know who I am... yes, though I did not state my actual name, but many people know I live by the nick: piggishpig... tata! YOU WIN! Haha... I apologise for not telling you earlier about my blog. For not sharing more about my thoughts with you guys. But I feel that some are personal, and if you happen to stop by, it's fate. Otherwise, too bad. But may be I shall release my blog URL to my friends one fine day. One day when I am ready. When I find that it has substance. Last of all, sorry dear dear for also not telling you about this. I cannot imagine you reading my blog and my every single posts. The feeling is awkward. You know what I mean? But most of all, I am frank to you verbally. That's all that matters right? You are the best!
To those who disagree with my opinion and have or are deciding to condemn me, I have no objections too. After all, nobody will be liked by everybody. I only hope that you have found that someone you like. Cherish them...
That's all for my speech cum announcement. Haha... till then, take care!
Now that I have tendered my resignation...
, what am I going to do while finding the perfect job?
Shall I write a book?
Shall I read a book?
Shall I rent shows to watch?
Shall I go for a short getaway?
Shall I blog like nobody's business?
What should I do? Any advise?
I think I shall really concentrate on writing my book, or rather, a script. I want to write a script and send it to a media agency. See whether they are interested in my plot and concept. High likely not I supposed. But it's an exposure! Yes, I think I'll try that... wish me luck!
And hopefully I'll be able to find a job for me to start work by 1st Jan. I cannot have no income coming in. Will really be in a mess. Finance woes!
"HELP!"I finally tendered my resignation!!!
Yes, after all the long talk etc, I finally tendered. And as expected, it was not a simple task.
My boss tried to retain me. Even tried to 'threaten' me, saying that if I leave the company, it's meaningless for her to continue. She will just close the company. And you know what is the best thing?
Cos' I told her that I need to apply for financial assistance for my house loan and my sisters' education next year. Thus, I went to find the minister for help, which he then said that it's tough for them to help us due to my current financial situation. I sort of borrowed the minister's name. I know this is not right but I have no choice. You know, I do not want to sour my relationship with my boss and she is pitiful enough. If I tell her straight the reason why I want to leave, she will surely breakdown and probably just commit suicide. Not exaggerating but this is a high possibility.
We had a long talk over the phone about this which she insists that this is not the right way out etc etc... finally ending with her writing to the minister again to promise that I'll get my pay and cpf on time. But regardless of what, I shall still resign. My decision is final.
I'm so tired. Sometimes I wonder if I am doing the right thing. Cos' no matter what I do, someone will always get hurt. And more importantly, the pressure I have to go through. I cannot take it already. I need a breather! Someone bring me overseas! Haii...
"Someone will be hurt ultimately..."
Sunday, November 26, 2006
How do you define a bankruptcy?
Is it a person with lots of debts?
Is it a person worth our pity?
Is it a shameless... or simply an easier route to escape reality?
It has been reported that the number of bankruptcy cases from last year to this year have increased. In fact, the figures are rising year after year. Simply because people overspend and find that declaring bankrupt is the fastest and easiest way to escape creditors and debts.
My mum almost wanted to declare bankrupt last year. She was involved in a court case pertaining to car loans. She was supposely owing the car dealer $100k. How was she suppose to find the money? Impossible mission. Hence, bankruptcy crossed her mind. When I found out, I broke down. I cannot accept the fact that my family is going through this path. That we might have to move house again, or even if not, will have our creditors coming to our house claiming items to their credit. I cannot accept this. Ultimately, she abolished this idea. Thankfully, we were blessed with God's and Buddha's help. Otherwise, I really can't imagine what state I will be in now.
A year later today, my boss told me she have intentions to declare bankrupt. And this time round, I encouraged her. To be more precise, it's not her who is to declare but the company. This company which I am working in now is over $150k in debt. No matter how hard we work, how much we earn, it will never be enough. And looking at how my boss handle the finances, I doubt it will ever be cleared. Why did she end up in this state?
Reason: Poor financial planning and overspending.
My boss used to be a tai-tai. She can live life free and easy, drink her afternoon tea with fellow tai-tais, play mahjong and go shopping all day long, be it in Singapore or overseas. However, her desire to play boss persuaded her to start a business- with her husband's money.
Today, her husband is a declared bankrupt in HK and my boss have to take on a night job to support the family. How pathetic. How cruel reality is. And the most amazing thing, it all happened because of one person's poor financial management.
I will tender my resignation on 30 November 2006. Whether or not she will throw her temper at me, I cannot be bothered anymore. It's time for me to think for myself.
"Only people who help themselves will get help from others"
Saturday, November 18, 2006
It's been a couple of months since I've talked about resigning. Have I resigned? Not yet... I'm still looking out.
I was been offered a job yesterday- Asst. Marketing Manager at a cafe. The pay is lower than what I'm receiving now, more hours, but if I'm talking about gaining experience in a F&B environment, this is a good opportunity for me. Should I accept or reject? Ultimately, I think I will reject.
I've finally found the reason why I have been rejected jobs and interviews. It is because I believe I can find better jobs elsewhere. Take for example now, I'm actually pinning my hopes on this job which I will going for a second interview this Tuesday. But I am in a dilemma.
As a Marketing personnel, whatever job at whichever company will always require me to work irregular hours and commit fully. I do not have problems committing fully, but I would love to pursue a degree. And if I do, it will clash with my working hours. What should I do? May be I should share my thoughts with the prospective companies which I am really interested to work in... yes, i think i should...
Wish me luck!
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
I am clueless. What am I doing?
For the past one month, I've been consistently sending in resumes to companies that not only has the type of job I am interested in, but also where I would like to work in. I received calls from a couple, went through the first interview, and when they called me to go back for a second interview, I simply rejected them.
My main reason for rejecting them is because I do not feel comfortable. I guess this is a very important factor for me in a career. Comfortable with the environment, with the people, with my job scope. How about knowledge? I recently rejected an interview whereby if accepted, I will be assigned the post of a learning and development executive working for a very big supermarket company. Pay will be paid on time, bonus given, in short, attractive remuneration package, but I just do not see the job satisfaction. However, that very minute when I rejected the interview, I sort of regret. Afterall, I will be able to learn alot and will be able to implement what I have learnt in my F&B business in future. I consulted my friend who told me that whatever job I chose, I must have interest in it. If not, what is the point? True... I felt relieved. Thanks girl... you know who you are...
Yes, I plan to operate a cafe in future. If not partnered with my buddy, I'll do a one man show. F&B is something which I see potential. As long as our concept is innovative, food delicious, there is pull factor, the business will thrive. Look at the market now, we see Fish 'n' Co, Swensens, Crystal Jade etc etc... how different are they from the Western store that sells even more choices at the hawker? They are even more expensive than the crab sold at coffee shops. So you see, branding... that's the key to success.
I once told a brunch of friends that I would like to franchise the toilet themed restaurant found in Taiwan. Got negative response as expected. I'm not sure if it's because I'm in the Marketing line or what, but things that I see, others don't. And yes, they do not expertise in this field. This applies to things which I took a liking to too. Upon looking at it, it may seem like a plain piece of junk. Add some accessories and it will shine. Get it?
That's why I really hope to start my own business and prove to others what I mean and where my ability lies in. Of course, I must comment that I have received lots of support, compliments and praising while at my present job. Thanks so much for recognizing me. I really appreciate it lots.
This Sunday, I will go to Sheraton Towers. For what? For the walk-in interview for a SIA Flight Stewardess. I'm not sure if I am cut out for it. But out of curiousity, I would like to know how far I can go to. And also because I am into travelling, culture and customer service now. I guess this is a wonderful opportunity for me to realise the above 3. Wish me luck!
INVEST in YOURSELF... U DESERVE to BE HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL.
Would you have made the same choice?
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child." Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.
Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay" Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.
That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world.
Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
